You Can Fall In Love More Than One Person At Same Tıme
We have more than one love within us and that love needs more than one person at the same time. There is a movie which is called “Vicky Cristina Barcelona”. It is about a person falling in love with more than one person at the same time. In the movie, there are two girls who fall in love with a cool artist. It is clear that one can fall in love with more than one person at the same time because there is no limit to love. We don’t know from where and when love will come.
First of all, there is no limit to love. American writer and aviator Anne Morrow’s said “Only love can be divided endlessly and still not diminish.”(Anne Morrow Lindbergh). The diversity of things that people learn and hear arises from their experiences or what they want to impose. For example, tradition has made us believe that love can happen only between two people such as Leyla and Mecnun or Romeo and Juliet, but there is something that should not be ignored, which is that love boundless. When you are in love with someone, you want to meet him or her. It doesn’t matter where you are; on the road, on the bus, at work. you are in love with that person in any situation. According to psychology, this is called polyamory. Polyamory means being in love with more than one person simultaneously. First, it starts with a short dialog and connects you to her. You don’t want to believe it, but you find yourself trying to think that what you feel is momentary. But If you listen to your inner voice, you will realize it is real love and you have actually fallen in love with two persons. That is a normal thing. Surely, you might think like Johnny Depp on this matter. “If you love two people at the same time, choose the second. Because if you really loved the first one, you wouldn’t have fallen for the second.”( Jhonny Deep )But the main issue here is to be in real love with two people at the same time, no matter who the first one is. People always want to try different things in their lives. Different phones, different computers, different books. If you are interested in a different phone, different computer, different books you may like to try all of them. So you may be interested in people with different characters, so you can fall in love with someone while at the same time falling in love with another one. This is caused by the pleasure of looking for different things.
Secondly, love is something which may happen instantaneously or over a period of time, but we don’t know exactly when and where. Although it has been discussed for years, no conclusion has been reached yet. But there is a fact known by everyone and that is that it is not clear when and from where love comes. On this account, we can say that love is a feeling that does not recognize time and place and manifests itself in a person. So when you fall in love with someone, you may find yourself falling in love with someone else. This is perfectly normal. It seems to be something immoral by society, but it is in the nature of man to fall in love and man cannot prevent himself. Nazım Hikmet’s, one of Turkey’s greatest poets, life is a perfect example. Nazım’s love for Vera Tulyakova was like that. Nazim Hikmet is married to Münevver and has one child. When he misses his wife in Moscow, he falls in love with Vera Tulyakova and He is in between two loves, the love for his wife and the one for Vera. But there are obstacles between them. Also, Vera is married and has a child. Nazım is ready to do anything for Vera. In the beginning, if they stayed away from one another but then they could not hide their love and they were married. In other words, both fell in love with two different people at the same time.
Third, there is something called falling in love with falling in love. People who are in love with being in love, rather than falling in love with the appearance, character, or any other characteristic of the other person, prefer to fall in love because they like to be in love. They love the feelings that they makeover, the ones they feel, the pleasure they give to people, and they like to be in love or rather love. They always seek for love. They also seek new people when they are in love, and they seek when they are not in love as well. They can not stop themselves. They take pleasure in that love may turn it into ashes. If we look at it from a different perspective, this desire, similar to masochism, also brings people into the abyss, and it is also possible that it lifts them to the sky. People who are in love with being in love, move away from concrete things, and go deep into the emotion. They try to pour their feelings with poems on paper, but when they get the opportunity to be with the other person, they turn up the event and they get a new victim, and after this time, it becomes their way and they continue in that way. In the words of Michel de Montaigne, “what we call love is nothing but a thirst for the taste that we will find in an entity.”.
As a result, love is an emotion that nurtures the soul of man, and there is no limit, time, or requirement of being in love. Therefore, it is possible to fall in love with more than one person at the same time. We have to get out of the way of society and give the freedom that needs love. Even though we know that there is no limit to love, we have to stop limiting it and break the lock we put on love. When we break this lock, we realize that love is actually an eternal feeling in the universe of infinity. We have to wait for the love that we don’t know when and where it will come, and we shouldn’t be surprised when it comes. When we fall in love with another one, we can see another love, it should not be ours, and should not miss our joy. If we are in love with being in love, we may be in love with more than one person at the same time but we should manage this situation in a balanced way and we must not let it ruin our lives. I mean, love is a passionate emotion that we think is happening with only one person at a time, but it can be experienced with more than one person.
Yakup Çelik
Sources
lovebondings.com
www.askmen.com
